There seems to be a discrepancy between myself and the guys in the showers in that my penis seems really small when flaccid in comparison to others, but when erect it seems perfectly normal to me (7″ and fairly thick.) What is up with this? It’s embarrassing to no end and it isn’t like I can say “Watch what I can make it do…” lol. I mentioned it to a friend and he said “there are growers and there are showers,” saying his sister had said that to him before.

Penises are smaller when flaccid, but there’s really no “normal” size, because everyone is different. Like your eye color and your height, the size of your penis is determined by genetic traits that you’ve inherited from your parents. However, studies have shown that the average penis size ranges from 2-4 inches without an erection, and between 5-6 inches with an erection.