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So I just learned about oral sex and I’m confused. Does everybody do oral sex?

Posted February 5, 2021 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Oral sex is a type of sexual contact between a person’s mouth and their partner’s vagina, penis, or rectum. Research studies show that approximately half of … read more

I ejaculated in a couple of pairs of my underwear and my parents put them in the washing machine, now I’m really worried about will the semen contaminate the other clothes? And will the stains come out of the underwear?

Posted February 3, 2021 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Many people wonder about semen and underwear. Sperm can live outside of the body for a short amount of time, except in very specific conditions. Good … read more

I have bulimia, and I’m not sure if I should tell my parents. They would probably get mad at me.

Posted February 1, 2021 under Ask Us.

Thank you for this question. Telling your parents about your struggle with bulimia can definitely be nerve-wracking, but can also be so important to make sure you’re able to get … read more

I recently had sex for the first time and out of concern that I might get an STD, I poured some Listerine over the head of my penis, with a little going into the tip then washing with water. There is mild irritation/burning the next day. Bad idea?

Posted January 29, 2021 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Many people worry about sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Using condoms with every sexual encounter is the best way to prevent STIs. Unfortunately using Listerine doesn’t help … read more

I have a lot of friends who vape. I have always really wanted to try, but I am scared. Can I try it even though I know it’s bad? If I just try it once, how bad is it for me? Can I get addicted after one time? Would my parents find out?

Posted January 27, 2021 under Ask Us.

Great question! Sometimes it’s really hard to say “No” to friends, especially when they are trying a new popular trend. Except when it comes to vaping, it’s different. Vaping is … read more

I was having a hard time sleeping at night sometimes, I can’t see any reasons if why it’s happening to me. Are they are possible things that can be the reason why I’m having insomnia?

Posted January 20, 2021 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Many people have a hard time sleeping and don’t know why. There are several things that can affect sleep, including our daily activities, whether or not … read more

Whenever I get an erection, my penis is facing the direction of my belly button. When I try to move it forward, there’s tension and a little discomfort. Is this normal or how can I fix it?

Posted January 15, 2021 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. When tissue inside the penis fills with blood it causes an erection. The penis becomes hard and increases in size. Different people describe this feeling differently, … read more

I had sex for the first time recently and I think I’ve got an STI. Besides my regular doctor or hospital, who else could I go see? A friend said the county health unit. Could I go without one of my parents? I’m not ready to confess to them yet.

Posted January 6, 2021 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Some people find it easier to go see a different health care provider to deal with concerns related to sex, such as a sexually transmitted infection … read more

I’m going to start going to therapy soon. I know there’s nothing wrong with going to therapy and there’s nothing wrong with me because of it. But it feels wrong with the stigma and all. How do I deal with the stigma and stay cool and all that?

Posted December 31, 2020 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Starting therapy to better understand yourself and how you respond to life is outstanding. Congratulations on moving forward with this. It takes strength to look at … read more

Is it normal to have PPP as an adolescent?

Posted December 29, 2020 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Pearly penile papules (PPP) are small, painless, benign (non-cancerous) bumps in a single or double row on or around the head of the penis. They are not contagious. … read more