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After shaving my nether regions, I often get ingrown hairs. I have one that I popped many months ago. It seems to just keep scabbing over itself and is now a small mass of skin. I have been tested so I know it is not an STD. Any advice?

Posted April 22, 2021 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Whenever there is a mass of skin by your penis, it’s always a good idea to get checked for a sexually transmitted infection (STI). Since you’ve … read more

The tip of my penis has been burning when pee comes out when I haven’t had water for a while. I’m not sexually active, the doctor said I don’t have a UTI, and I don’t have any other symptoms. This has been happening for 3 weeks. Can someone help?

Posted April 13, 2021 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. A few of the common things that can cause burning when you pee include: Local Irritation. This can include small cuts or abrasions on your penis … read more

I’m a college freshman and went to a party. Had way too much to drink. I woke up naked in bed with a naked girl. Dried cum was everywhere and no sign of condoms. I did not consent to sex but guys don’t get raped. What if she had gotten pregnant?

Posted April 6, 2021 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. It’s a common myth that guys don’t get raped. The truth is anyone, regardless of gender identity, can experience sexual assault or rape. Sexual assault cannot … read more

How can you get tested for STDs?

Posted April 2, 2021 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. For anyone who has ever had sex it’s important to get tested for sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) regularly. Where to Get Tested You can get tested … read more

I am unsure as to where I would find Sexual Education for the LGBTQ+ community. I need this so I can keep myself as well as my boyfriend safe.

Posted March 30, 2021 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. You are taking a great step to keep yourself and your boyfriend healthy, and to have a healthy relationship. As you know sexual education includes safer … read more

I am 26 years old and I’ve never been sexually active. Is this OK?

Posted March 24, 2021 under Ask Us.

Yes! It doesn’t matter how old or young you are, it’s completely normal to not be sexually active. Sex is a huge deal – physically and emotionally. No one should … read more

I know I need to drink more water… but every website says something different. How many ounces should I ACTUALLY be going for (minimum)?

Posted March 22, 2021 under Ask Us.

It’s generally recommended that you drink 4-6 cups (around 32-64 ounces) of water daily.  Everyone is different, the amount of water recommended for you might be different for someone else, … read more

My right testicle has been hurting a little bit since last week. It doesn’t hurt 24/7, but the pain comes and goes. I have been so concerned about it and I don’t know what to do!

Posted March 12, 2021 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Lots of things can cause pain in your testicle. Some causes for testicular pain are: Injury. If you got hit there or may have some skin … read more

I’m 18 and I still don’t have any chest hair. I have body hair grow everywhere else except on my chest. Why? And should I be concerned?

Posted March 5, 2021 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Body hair, in sex-assigned at birth males, is mostly affected by genetics and androgens (which are hormones such as testosterone). If you have body hair in … read more

One of my friends has an issue with their smoking addiction and has recently tried unsuccessfully to quit. I know it’s important to quit smoking and want to help them but I’m not sure what to do. How can I help them?

Posted March 1, 2021 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Quitting smoking is hard, and most people have to try a few times before they are successful. There are many benefits to quitting, including positive health … read more