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I am 18 and a virgin but whenever anything about sex is mentioned, my penis will start getting hard. Any advice for me?

Posted December 7, 2023 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Many people wonder about erections, and their sometimes unwanted timing. So what is an erection? An erection is the medical term for when the penis fills … read more

I got a lot of hair everywhere that I don’t want after puberty. It’s on my stomach, upper arms, back, and on my butt. My dad said if I shave it will come back thicker and worse. What’s the best and safest way to remove hair for a guy my age?

Posted November 29, 2023 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. During puberty those who are assigned male at birth typically notice increased body hair on their face, chest, armpits, stomach, and elsewhere. Some people want to … read more

I’m trying to stretch my foreskin and I stretched it far enough that I can see hardened smegma and I tried to clean it off but the head of my penis hurts when I touch it. I’m not circumcised. what should I do?

Posted August 25, 2023 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. There are lots of things that can make a penis hurt, including irritation. Read on to learn more about the causes of penis pain when you … read more

If I have vaginal sex with a trans guy (FTM) do I have to worry about him getting pregnant or do all the hormones he takes prevent him from getting pregnant?

Posted August 18, 2023 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. It’s important to know there is a risk of pregnancy with vaginal sex. People assigned female at birth (AFAB) on gender affirming hormones can still get … read more

After puberty the skin on my penis got a lot darker. I’ve noticed a few other guys with darker penises. Why?

Posted June 23, 2023 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. During puberty hormones cause lots of changes in your body. Some of these changes include increasing the size of your penis, testicles, and scrotum. These hormones … read more

I’m 15 and a virgin. In health class we were talking about the HPV vaccine. Coach said it could possible prevent certain cancers. My parents asked why I wanted it if I was a virgin. Should I wait until I’m sexually active to get the vaccine?

Posted June 12, 2023 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Lots of people have questions about vaccines, and specifically about the HPV vaccine. Let’s review some of the facts. What is HPV? HPV stands for Human … read more

I’ve got major jock itch. It’s driving me nuts. I’ve tried sprays, creams, and powders. Nothing is working. Any old remedies I should try? It burns and itches big time!

Posted June 2, 2023 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Jock itch (medical name Tinea Cruris) is a skin infection in your groin that’s caused by a fungus. What are the symptoms of jock itch? Itching … read more

How do I find the best exercise program for a guy my age? Online is confusing. I have a friend who broke his back for real by trying to lift too much weight. Most guys just try to get muscles fast but not always safely I think.

Posted April 26, 2023 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Many people have questions about a good exercise plan.  There are so many options online and it can be tough to know what program is right … read more

I’m only freshman to make varsity baseball. Was taken to the woods and had to funnel several beers. Was told to strip and made to blow the seniors as the team watched and cheered. I want to report but making varsity as freshman is huge. What do I do?

Posted April 24, 2023 under Ask Us.

We’re glad you reached out to us. What happened to you is not okay, and most importantly, deciding what to do about it is not something you should have to … read more

I met an older man online and we’re ready to have sex. The issue is he is HIV positive. He says his status is “not detectable”. I trust him but looking it up online I’ve found opposing info. Is it safe for us to have anal sex? If not, what can we do?

Posted March 10, 2023 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. It’s great that you’re thinking about how to have safer sex. Based on current research, if your partner takes HIV medications and he has an undetectable … read more