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I was last to change in football locker room due to finishing workout. One of the coaches came in and took off his shorts in front of me and smiled. He didn’t force anything and I left. Should I say something? What if it was innocent? I can’t sleep.

Posted August 15, 2022 under Ask Us.

I’m sorry to hear about this and agree with what you have shared; it’s hard to know what was going on. It sounds like you handled the situation as well … read more

Is it ok to masturbate every night?

Posted August 12, 2022 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Many people masturbate, and wonder what’s normal. From a medical standpoint masturbation (or rubbing your genitals) is normal. How often someone masturbates can vary, with some … read more

I’m 16 yrs old and a virgin. However, I’ve got a weird spot on my ball sac. Could I have caught an STD from somewhere like a public toilet, gym, shower…?

Posted August 5, 2022 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) are spread through contact with infected body fluids such as blood, vaginal fluids, or semen. You can get an STI through vaginal, … read more

How do you shave your pubic hair? I have it at the base of my penis and around that area, and I think there is even some on the actual shaft and balls. I don’t know what razor to use, because I am afraid of cutting my pelvic area.

Posted July 29, 2022 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Many people have questions about their pubic hair, and specifically how to shave it. It’s important to know that there are no medical benefits to removing … read more

When I urinate should I retract the foreskin? I don’t usually do this but some of my other uncut friends said they do to promote hygiene under the foreskin.

Posted July 22, 2022 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. It is recommended to gently retract (or pull back) your foreskin when you urinate. You should pull back just far enough to see the meatus (the … read more

I was swimming at the beach when I began to get an erection. I was really embarrassed that someone might see it. How can you hide an erection?

Posted July 15, 2022 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Most guys have had an erection at an awkward time. This is normal, and can happen even when you are not thinking about anything sexual. Here … read more

I’ve been working out a little more than usual, and my balls and the area between the ball sack and my butt are sore. What’s the reason for this?

Posted July 8, 2022 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Your genital area may be sore for lots of reasons, including: Using different muscles and ligaments while working out. Stretching and using some over the counter … read more

I was masturbating in my room when my stepfather opened the door. He put his hand on my penis and said that I better not tell anyone, and that I had to make him feel good or he would kick me out of the house. So then I did, but now what do I do?

Posted July 1, 2022 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question and for seeking support. It is important to know this is not your fault, and you are not alone. Sexual abuse is any unwanted sexual contact. … read more

I’m very athletic and workout plus play many sports. I’m uncut. I’ve been having a large amount of white stinky junk (smegma) on my penis. I wash my penis well. It’s embarrassing in the locker room and when intimate! How do I keep from getting it?

Posted June 24, 2022 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Many people have questions about their uncircumcised penis. It’s great that you are taking care of the skin on your penis. In general, we recommend gently … read more

Recently, my nipples have been sore, and the area around it. What is happening?

Posted June 17, 2022 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Nipples can be sore for many reasons. Some common reasons and treatments: Injury. The muscles by the nipple may be sore from physical activity (such as … read more