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- If I have vaginal sex with a trans guy (FTM) do I have to worry about him getting pregnant or do all the hormones he takes prevent him from getting pregnant? (8/18/2023)
- I met an older man online and we’re ready to have sex. The issue is he is HIV positive. He says his status is “not detectable”. I trust him but looking it up online I’ve found opposing info. Is it safe for us to have anal sex? If not, what can we do? (3/10/2023)
- I know they are just labels but… Started dating this girl and now we are pretty serious. Issue is she’s trans and has a penis. I’ve never been attracted to boys but no one can tell she isn’t a girl (new to our school). Does this mean I’m gay? (1/20/2023)
- My best friend and I were hanging out drinking. He kissed me and we made out and ended up giving each other oral sex. Does that make me gay? I love girls. I date girls. Although oral sex felt great, it’s not something that turned me on to do again. (8/19/2022)
- Why do guys need to use condoms when they are having sex with other guys if they can’t get pregnant? (4/22/2022)
- I haven’t jerked off or ejaculated once in my life and I’m 14 years old. Does that mean I’m gay, or just I’m afraid of masturbating? (7/6/2021)
- I am unsure as to where I would find Sexual Education for the LGBTQ+ community. I need this so I can keep myself as well as my boyfriend safe. (3/30/2021)
- I’ve been questioning my sexuality for years and really think I’m asexual. I don’t feel safe coming out and feel like I can’t tell my doctor or even my family right now. If I tell my therapist, will they be understanding, and will it be confidential? (10/5/2020)
- I’m gay and use a condom every time I have anal sex. However, I love giving and receiving oral sex (and swallowing). Can I catch HIV from oral sex? Wearing a condom in oral sex makes no sense. Is there some way to protect myself and partner from STIs? (9/24/2020)
- I got my first boyfriend recently. We’ve had oral sex, but not anal sex. We were watching tv and saw an ad for PrEP medicines. Since we are gay, should we just get on PrEP now to prevent HIV or are these medicines only for older guys? If not now, when? (5/8/2020)
- Can gay people get any STIs when they have anal sex if both partners don’t have any STIs? (4/19/2019)
- I’m gay and had protected anal sex as the “bottom” and unprotected oral sex with a new partner two days ago. I’m planning on getting tested for STDs for the first time. How long should I wait before getting tested, and what should I expect? (11/20/2018)
- What is sexuality and sexual orientation? (10/26/2018)
- I watch porn when I masturbate. I’m straight but I also watch gay porn. Does this mean I’m gay, straight or bisexual? (2/15/2017)
- My friend just told me they’re gender fluid. I love them, no matter what, but I’m finding it hard to switch from “she” to “they” all the time and will make mistakes by accident. I don’t want them to feel bad, so how can I get better? (12/20/2016)
- I am bisexual and want to know about gay anal sex. Is it bad to have anal sex or what? (9/9/2015)
- Sometimes I feel attracted to guys. Am I gay? (12/10/2014)
- Can a guy like anal play and not be gay? (1/15/2013)
