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From time to time, guys can experience some irritation or inflammation of the urethra (the hole at the tip of the penis where pee comes out), called “urethritis”.  This condition can sometimes happen during or right after masturbation, sexual activity, or as the result of an infection caused by a virus or bacteria. Very commonly, chemicals like soap or shampoo can cause pain/irritation of the urethra, especially if you try to masturbate while showering or taking a bath. However, if you ever have pain that doesn’t go away, you should ask to your health care provider (HCP) about it. Your HCP will likely ask you questions such as: Are you sexually active? Do you use condoms every time you have sex? Do you have an allergy to latex or other allergies to certain soaps, etc.? Have you noticed any discharge coming from your penis? Do you have a fever?

To help figure out the cause of your pain when you ejaculate (which is the scientific term for “cum”), your HCP may ask you to pee into a cup to check for bacteria in your urine. Tell your HCP if you are sexually active as he/she will also want to rule out the possibility of a sexually transmitted infection (STI). It’s important to see your health care provider before your symptoms get worse. Only then can your HCP decide what type of treatment is best for you. In almost all cases, early treatment can cure the problem.