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When I masturbate I always have to pee afterwards, and sometimes when I pee after it can be a little painful and burn a little. Is this normal?

Posted July 30, 2020 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Whenever someone has pain when they pee (or void) it’s a good idea to see a health care provider to check for things such as infections, … read more

I have a partner, but it seems they are drifting away? Is there anything I can do?

Posted July 28, 2020 under Ask Us.

Thank you so much for your question. Relationships can be so hard, even when we’re not in a global pandemic! The world right now is under a lot of stress, … read more

I have had trichotillomania for around 4-5 years and my mom wants to sign me up for a support group, but I kinda freak out when I talk in front of large groups even if it’s online and you can remain anonymous and not show your face. What should I do?

Posted July 23, 2020 under Ask Us.

It is completely normal to be nervous about trying something new, especially when it involves sharing personal information with others. Most support groups are small, so it is unlikely that … read more

I’m 15, and for the past 3 years my uncle has touched me sexually. How do I bring this up? I love my uncle and don’t want him to get in trouble. I just want it to stop. He is my mother’s brother and also a preacher so I’m afraid no one will believe me.

Posted July 21, 2020 under Ask Us.

Thanks for sending your question. As you indicate this is a very difficult situation and is not going to have a simple solution. First, you should know that you are … read more

I’m a homeschooler, and things at home are getting rough. I’m stressed all the time, but I don’t feel like I can tell my parents. I don’t have outside resources. How do I get counseling without them knowing?

Posted July 15, 2020 under Ask Us.

We are sorry to hear things have been difficult at home. With COVID-19 precautions, so many young people are feeling stuck at home and many are struggling with challenging family … read more

I have varicocele in my left testicle. When I wear very tight underwear and jeans i do not notice varicocele almost at all. Now my girlfriend said that tight jeans and varicocele maybe lower my fertility. Is that true?

Posted July 13, 2020 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. A lot of people have questions about fertility. As you know, a varicocele is a dilated vein in your scrotum. Varicoceles are most commonly on the … read more

I’ve had this issue my whole life. I rarely feel thirst unless it’s extreme. I can’t drink more than a mouthful of any fluid or I feel nauseous. It’s an issue, as I can get dehydrated, but my body doesn’t tell me till it’s severe.

Posted July 10, 2020 under Ask Us.

Thanks for asking this question! Fluids are essential for your body to function. Many of our organs, including our brain, skin, and kidneys, require water. Therefore, it is important for … read more

I think I have trichotillomania. When I was 12 years old, I started pulling my hair out of my head to the point where I developed a bald spot. My parents are both doctors, but I don’t think they know what trichotillomania is because they’ve noticed, but haven’t really done anything to help me. I am really insecure about it…help!

Posted July 7, 2020 under Ask Us.

Glad you wrote us about this problem because it happens to lots of other youth who may have similar questions. Trichotillomania (trik-o-till-o-MAY-nee-uh) (TTM), also called the “hair pulling disorder,” is … read more

I can masturbate OK, but when I use lube or lotion on my head it gets very sensitive and extremely uncomfortable, and because of it I’m not able to ejaculate. How can I fix this?

Posted July 3, 2020 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Lots of people have questions about masturbation. Using a lubricant can make masturbation more comfortable and enjoyable. For starters there are 3 general types of lubricant … read more

I’m a 17 year old, and I just had a doctor’s appointment where my doctor did a physical exam and did a testicle exam. Do doctors make you masturbate in front of them or do something similar?

Posted June 30, 2020 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Getting an annual physical exam is an important part of taking care of your health. A doctor will typically do a testicular exam during an annual … read more