Young Men's Health
My parents say I have ADHD but when I went to a therapist, he said I appeared to have inattentive type ADD. What’s the difference, and why can’t my parents and the therapist agree?Thanks for your question. A lot of people wonder about ADHD and ADD. Briefly, ADHD is Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. Some people can find it hard to focus or concentrate … read more
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Since about 5, my uncle has slept naked with me in my bed. He visits 6-8 times a year. We’ve both touched each other. He’s my only uncle-dad’s brother (no aunts). Scared it will ruin him coming if I tell my parents. He’s in bad health. Do I speak up?
Thanks for sending your question. As you indicate this is a very difficult situation and is not going to have a simple solution. First, you should know that you are … read more
Are masks effective in preventing coronavirus transmission? Why?
Thanks for your question. Face masks serve two main purposes in preventing coronavirus transmission: They help protect you from getting infected with coronavirus. They help you protect others from getting … read more
When I went to my annual doctor appointment, my doctor asked me about stuff like how the school year went, how my classes were, if I liked remote schooling, how I communicated with my friends, where I volunteered, and such. Why did she ask me that?
Thanks for your question. When you go to your annual appointment, a lot of people expect to be asked questions about how they are physically feeling. For instance, you may … read more
When I sit, even for a short period of time, I tend to have pins and needles in my legs to the point that I don’t feel my legs anymore. Sometimes it also happens to my arms and hands. What is this? Is there anything I can do to stop it?
Thanks for your question! Paresthesia is the unusual and unexpected burning or prickling sensation in the hands, feet, arms, and or legs, aka “pins and needles.” There are other causes such … read more
When I masturbate I always have to pee afterwards, and sometimes when I pee after it can be a little painful and burn a little. Is this normal?
Thanks for your question. Whenever someone has pain when they pee (or void) it’s a good idea to see a health care provider to check for things such as infections, … read more
I have a partner, but it seems they are drifting away? Is there anything I can do?
Thank you so much for your question. Relationships can be so hard, even when we’re not in a global pandemic! The world right now is under a lot of stress, … read more
I have had trichotillomania for around 4-5 years and my mom wants to sign me up for a support group, but I kinda freak out when I talk in front of large groups even if it’s online and you can remain anonymous and not show your face. What should I do?
It is completely normal to be nervous about trying something new, especially when it involves sharing personal information with others. Most support groups are small, so it is unlikely that … read more
I’m 15, and for the past 3 years my uncle has touched me sexually. How do I bring this up? I love my uncle and don’t want him to get in trouble. I just want it to stop. He is my mother’s brother and also a preacher so I’m afraid no one will believe me.
Thanks for sending your question. As you indicate this is a very difficult situation and is not going to have a simple solution. First, you should know that you are … read more
I’m a homeschooler, and things at home are getting rough. I’m stressed all the time, but I don’t feel like I can tell my parents. I don’t have outside resources. How do I get counseling without them knowing?
We are sorry to hear things have been difficult at home. With COVID-19 precautions, so many young people are feeling stuck at home and many are struggling with challenging family … read more