Thanks for your question. Most guys have had an erection at an awkward time. This is normal, and can happen even when you are not thinking about anything sexual. Here … read more
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I’ve been working out a little more than usual, and my balls and the area between the ball sack and my butt are sore. What’s the reason for this?
Thanks for your question. Your genital area may be sore for lots of reasons, including: Using different muscles and ligaments while working out. Stretching and using some over the counter … read more
I was masturbating in my room when my stepfather opened the door. He put his hand on my penis and said that I better not tell anyone, and that I had to make him feel good or he would kick me out of the house. So then I did, but now what do I do?
Thanks for your question and for seeking support. It is important to know this is not your fault, and you are not alone. Sexual abuse is any unwanted sexual contact. … read more
I’m very athletic and workout plus play many sports. I’m uncut. I’ve been having a large amount of white stinky junk (smegma) on my penis. I wash my penis well. It’s embarrassing in the locker room and when intimate! How do I keep from getting it?
Thanks for your question. Many people have questions about their uncircumcised penis. It’s great that you are taking care of the skin on your penis. In general, we recommend gently … read more
Recently, my nipples have been sore, and the area around it. What is happening?
Thanks for your question. Nipples can be sore for many reasons. Some common reasons and treatments: Injury. The muscles by the nipple may be sore from physical activity (such as … read more
I am starting to get pubic hairs now, and the bush feels weird. How do I shave my pubic area, especially on the shaft and balls?
Thanks for your question. People shave, remove, or groom pubic hair for many different reasons. It’s important to know that there are no medical benefits to removing pubic hair. For … read more
Our grade got hotel rooms with 5 people to a room on a trip. We had to share beds, and I shared with a guy who liked to sleep naked. I sleep in my boxers, but when I woke up, I was naked and his penis was pressed against me. Is this sexual assault?
Thanks for your question and for seeking support. It is important to know this is not your fault, and you are not alone. Sexual abuse is any unwanted sexual contact. … read more
Please I am a sickle cell patient. And my status is SC. What are the kind of foods that are very good to my health?
Thanks for your question. People with sickle cell disease should be sure to consume a variety of fruits and vegetables in order to get lots of vitamins and minerals. Try … read more
Where can I get tested for STIs besides family doctor? Our doc and my dad are best friends so he is out of the question as my parents don’t know I’m even sexually active. Is there a home test where I can do it myself? I’ve got bumps I’m worried about.
Thanks for your question. When it comes to sexual health a lot of people worry about confidentiality and comfort with their health care provider. If you are having sex, it’s … read more
When I receive oral sex, I cum very quickly. I’m excited over the experience, but I’m so embarrassed I can’t last longer. When I give my boyfriend oral sex, he lasts forever before cumming. Is there anything I can do to not cum so quickly?
Thanks for your question. Many people wonder about whether the time it takes them to ejaculate (or cum) is normal. The medical term for this is “ejaculatory latency time.” Premature … read more